The old and reliable AJs
How do you define sadness? Do you define it because you learned it from the dictionary? or based on experience? I know, most probably, people define it based on experience. People define it ever since the feeling struck to their hearts for the very first time.
The next question would be; What makes you sad? Some people get sad because they lost a thing that is valuable to them. Some our depressed because they got laid off from work and don’t even know how to pay their bills the next billing date. Some people get sad because they are not paid the right amount that they deserve. Some people maybe sad because their loved ones departed them. There are so many ways why people get sad. Whether the reasons are non-sense or sensible. The bottomline is, we are sad.
But why is it that when love makes you sad its totally a different feeling? I feel sad right now because of love. It is something that don’t hurt you physically, but emotionally you can feel it deep down to your heart the pain it brings. It’s like your heart is being crumpled like a scratch paper and been thrown on a trash can full of crumpled scratch papers as well.
I still don’t know why that feeling is very different. What makes it worst? It heals really slow. Sooner you’ll know the wound is getting worse everyday. But they say "Time heals all wounds" and in a line on a song that said "Time has a way of healing" but why is it people left into crying, hurting and in pain? These are the effects of sadness. Worst part of sadness people tend to hurt themselves physically or punish themselves just to somehow shy away from the hurt that they feel.
I wonder why all of these have to happen? It happens so quickly and it strikes when your guards our down. Very depressing, frustrating and overwhelming as I may describe it. But what can a person, a mortal do about this? This I may ask? I tried to evaluate and I kinda find the answers. Sadness, tells us lessons in life that happiness sometimes don’t teach us. If every people are always happy they will just end there and know nothing. Eventually, they look for another thing that will excite them just to keep the happiness going. I am not saying that sadness is better than being happy. I am just saying, if we feel sadness and learned from it that’s when happiness comes into place. Sadness is a way for us to be with Jesus Christ again. I know every people when they are happy tends to forget to pray for the blessings they receive. Praying can help. It always help. Lastly, sadness reminds us that we are only human.
This I may say, it’s okay to be sad. But, it is not okay when you bury yourself with sadness all over your body, mind and especially to your heart. We all want a happy heart, a happier one. We all want to love and be loved. Having a sad heart won’t help.
Sadness.. An invited guest to our hearts.. Let it not be the reason to stop you from what you can be.
Let’s pray and ask God for serenity, acceptance and peace of mind..
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